From Single to Taken-Whats annoying me

I've been out of the "dating game" for a while, like 3 years to be exact. After my college relationship, I just causally dated. Anyone that knows me, knows i'm a random, spontaneous person. And getting into a full on, monogamous relationship was very random for me. It happened so fast like one day i'm single, I blink and then i'm taken. Now don't get me wrong i'm very happy but of course after a 3 year break, there are some things that annoy me.

1. Him Over worrying- . I do not eat all day every day. As soon as I say "Baby i'm not hungry or I'll just eat this jello cup (last night), he's gets upset. It's cute but annoying when we're on the phone and he may ask me what I want to eat and i say "I don't know" or "nothing". He thinks i'm purposely trying to starve myself. I can eat and for a vegetarian, i'm kind of thick. But since he's not use to a vegetarian diet, it seems like i'm starving myself. I can get full off of a bowl of cereal, toast, and orange juice.

I think Guys just worry too much about women's habits. No woman wants to be fat on purpose. I use portion control. If I eat a heavy breakfast, I won't eat a heavy dinner. If i'm not hungry I won't eat. I'm going to stop making it worse by saying " OMG baby I think i'm getting fat", that really doesn't help :-?

2. ME Over Worrying- Okay so yes i'm annoyed when he thinks i'm anorexic but I also get annoyed at the fact I worry so much about him. It's crazy to me that I could worry about a person who just 5 months ago, I did not know existed. I have no solution for myself on this one....

3. Getting Comfortable- Farting, do I need to say more....

4. TV- I am an avid tv watcher, I love the shows that I love. That includes Bad Girls Club, Basketball Wives (Miami and L.A), Mob Wives, Real House Wives, basically any show that involves women fighting and back biting each other. So of course when Basketball Wives is on and his show, Jersey Shore, is on we have to fuss about what show who is going to watch. And of course it depends on who's house we're over and how the other person's day went. I just want to watch my show.


This list may get bigger. As much as the above habits annoy's me, I love them. If he didn't worry, I would bitch about it. If we didn't watch tv together, that means that we're not spending time together or trying to figure out each other's interest. It's nice being taken.